8-12 months
What to expect for most babies around 9 months of age
Social and emotional
- Cries when mum or dad leaves.
- Might feel scared when they are in new places or around people they do not know.
- Smiles or laughs when you play “peek-a-boo”.
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Language and communication
- Looks when you call their name.
- Uses gestures like shaking their head or waving bye.
- Makes sounds like talking.
- Lifts arms to be picked up.
Cognitive (learning, thinking, problem-solving)
- Plays with things by shaking, banging, or throwing them.
- Bangs two things together.
- Looks for objects they drop (like a spoon or toy).
- Puts things in and out of a container.
Movement and physical development
- Can sit up without help.
- Moves things from one hand to the other hand.
- Uses fingers to move food towards them.
What to expect for most babies around 12 months of age
Social and emotional
- Plays games such as “peek-a-boo”.
- Repeats sounds or actions to get attention.
Language and communication
- Understands when you ask them to do something.
- Uses gestures like clapping
- Tries to say words you say.
- Says simple words like "mama" or "dada."
- Can pass you a book or toy to invite you to play.
Cognitive (learning, thinking, problem-solving)
- Can find hidden objects easily.
- Looks at the right picture when you say its name.
- Copies what you do.
- Starts using things the right way, like drinking from a cup.
- Puts things in and out of a container.
- Points with their finger.
- Does what you ask, like picking up a toy.
Movement and physical development
- Pulls themselves up to stand.
- Walks while holding onto furniture.
- Might take a few steps without holding on.
- Can stand alone.
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Last updated: 02 Oct, 2025 - 07:48


